Hello! I'm Ronan x
I'm a psychosomatic practitioner, specialising in E.F.T and the founder of Arbee Wellness. I work with adult children of absent, immature and narcissistic parents who have tried everything to heal, but nothing has ever moved the needle forward and created change that actually lasts
5/1 Splenic Projector in Human Design
INFJ
in Myers Briggs
Clair sentient
(for my woo-woo crew)
Growing Up
I grew up in New Zealand, raised by an emotionally absent father and a narcissistic mother, which made me feel alone, trapped and like I was fundamentally not good enough. Despite growing up in a home like this, I always felt a deep calling inside me to help people, make a positive impact on the world and change the lives of many.
I was chronically bullied through school, leaving my teenager years filled with anxiety, depression, eating disorders and deep rage about the world.
After dropping out of school for my mental health, I was addicted to food, weed and nicotine. I moved into an older, abusive partner's house to get away from home, which ultimately lead to a court case fighting for my safety at the age of 18.
The start of my healing
I'd tried talk therapy, counselling, medications - everything but nothing ever fixed the problem. So trust me, I know what it feels like.
After moving cities to flee the start of my life at 19, I was left in my room, crying over a google search asking "how to be happy?" Little did I know, this was going to change my life.
I always understood one thing, some people struggle mentally, other's don't. Some people are wealthy, some aren't. What are these people doing differently? And from there, I was introduced to the world of personal development.
I became obsessed with meditation, affirmations and all the fun law of attraction stuff - reading every book known to man about being a better person.
I always wanted to be wealthy, successful and help people so I could escape the financial disaster I grew up in, build a meaningful life and break the generational cycles for my future kids.
Personal Training
At the age of 20, I was recruited into a network marketing company, however it wasn't like the tacky product selling, recruitment schemes you see. It was a mentorship focused programme leveraging MLM, and honestly, I owe so much of who I am today to them.
With the skills I learned, deep willpower and an insane level of discipline, I grew a six figure Personal Training business at the age of 21 but little did I know, my past was coming back to take it all away from me.
I was beyond happy with my life and I discovered how much my soul was passionate about helping people through 1:1 coaching. Seeing somebody grow, develop confidence and become a better person through my guidance was the deepest gift I could have. I also noticed, that so many clients weren't able to achieve their health and fitness goals due to unresolved trauma, which led me to my next path
Whether it was self sabotage or a soul led calling, I threw it all away and moved to a new city in the pursuit of a new dream
The Awakening
When I made this move, I had begun studying neuroscience, the nervous system, the unconscious mind and trauma. Little did I know, this was going to activate the deepest spiritual awakening in me.
All those years I suffered starting to make sense. All those answers I'd looked for from traditional therapy were revealed to me. I finally understood the framework of how to actually become somebody new. How to change my life. How to feel different.
For the next three years, I went through a healing journey from hell but ultimately, bought me back to who I truly am at my core and rebuilt the entire foundations of my worth, being and how I felt
Manifesting my dream life
During my awakening, I was mastering the art of manifestation through a programme I took. I had intended to become an influencer with the hopes of helping people with my platform and it actually happened.
On a burst of inspiration, I packed my stuff and moved to Canada, deleted all my old socials, changed my name, not realising that six weeks later, I'd be pulling in millions of views and launching my dreams of becoming an influencer. It was truly an overnight success.
Over the next six months, I pulled in merch sales, brand deals, news interviews, agents and a tightly engaged community. I couldn't believe what was happening. My childhood dream I'd wished for my whole life actually manifested - but something felt empty and off
I wasn't helping people the way I had hoped from being visible. I was thinking, what am I doing all this for? I have all this attention and stuff but no meaningful impact on the world.
Out of overwhelm from all the change, I sabotaged, came back to New Zealand and suffered an ego death that catapulted my healing even deeper.
Life After Healing
After navigating the ego death, E.F.T became the only thing that moved me out of my healing journey to actually being fully alive. It took me from understanding and insight, to deep resolution because it addressed the somatic healing required for real change.
Today, I no longer suffer with poor mental health, I wake up excited to be alive, motivated to pursue my dreams and have a beautiful, healthy relationship.
My mindset is naturally positive and I genuinely like who I am. Every element of my life has improved, especially financially because I now have the energy to improve my life, rather than feel trapped in survival.
My baseline is peace and I find comfort in knowing how much I've influenced the future dynamics of my family tree.
Now it's your turn x
After my healing journey finished, I was lit up with a soul led calling to train as an E.F.T practitioner and help other people navigate their healing with such a powerful therapy.
Now I run an online business. I have the freedom to work from anywhere in the world, helping people heal and create the life they always wanted. I live a soul led, intuitive life with a business, income and visibility that supports my purpose of positively impacting the world.
All the traditional therapies and tools never worked for me and for almost every client who sees me with a background of absent, immature or narcissistic parents. Whereas E.F.T does because it addresses each of the three layers of trauma. The unconscious roots, the symptoms of it and the nervous system impacts.
Backed and certified by neuroscience, psychology and all the tools required for change, I hope to see you soon. Here's to your greatest life yet x