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TAP INTO EASE, PEACE AND AUTHENTICITY WITH
EFT TAPPING

You’ve been struggling for so long now, you don’t even know what it’s like to live without the fight of just surviving each day  

It's time you wake up feeling rested and start living at ease

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Does this sound like you?

You've tried everything.

You've been to therapy, counselling, tried medications and mindfulness. As much as it helped with awareness and understanding, it never felt like anything was fully resolved. After spending months or years understanding why you feel like shit, and trying and failing to change habits, you're still struggling and wondering — "now what?"

You're exhausted.

No matter how much rest you get, you always wake up drained. You're so tired, a part of you may secretly wish to get sick so you can finally take time off. After all, you don't have a choice — you have to push through each day, and you do it well. But it's just so damn hard …

You know your patterns.

Especially your relationships. You can identify your triggers, you know why you feel the way you do about things … Yet despite being so aware, you're still seeing the same old dynamic play out in front of you — leaving you frustrated, thinking: wtf? Why can't I break this?

You're living on edge.

Replaying each encounter, feeling like you were not enough or maybe too much — perhaps both at the same time. You're subconsciously scanning and monitoring everyone around you, watching each interaction. Should I have been less? Quieter? Am I doing enough? Should I speak more? Trying to make sure everyone around you is okay while hiding behind your smile. Inside, you are drowning under the weight of shame, exhaustion and hopelessness.

You're sensitive.

Small things trigger emotions so intense they consume you… you feel things so deeply. You're upset, angry, sad, insulted, jealous, hurt — it sometimes leaves you wanting to avoid things just to keep the peace. You don't have the capacity to feel anything else on top of how much is already living inside you.

You're high-functioning.

Most people likely wouldn't suspect you were struggling unless you said something. You're responsible and capable, you show up to work, you manage your relationships — but it uses every ounce of energy, effort and fight you have, and you feel you have no choice. 

You've become so functional on the outside that nobody around you even knows.

Because of that - you're isolated, lonely and disconnected from your pain. 

How could you consider working out or indulging in activities, when all your energy is spent surviving?

You've become so good at coping that now you don't even know what life is like without the fight — and worse, a part of you is starting to wonder who you are without the pain. When you catch even a glimpse of ease or feeling okay, you consistently find yourself right back where you started. Laying awake at night, desperate for a good night's sleep, tossing and turning with a mind that just won't shut off.

You've tried so hard already. EFT can bring you the relief you need, and it will not take years to get there.

Here's the missing piece you've never been told

Your struggle isn't in your mind, it's in your body.

All of the emotional events you've gone through in your life accumulate in your body. It sends your nervous system into a fight, flight or freeze response. The nervous system pumps adrenaline, cortisol and stress to help you run from a lion. Once the threat has passed, it regulates and you return to a feeling of peace, ease and joy.

But for you — you've become dysregulated. This means your nervous system never came out of survival mode — which is why you feel as if you're just surviving each day. You're showing up, going to work, fighting — all because your nervous system is fighting YOU.

Perhaps it was all the times you felt you weren't good enough when your mother criticised you. Or maybe all the times you felt unwanted and rejected by your father. Your nervous system learned it wasn't safe. Not in the mind — in the body. And each time it happened — shame built you into somebody you're not, just so you could survive.

Each experience of abuse, assault or trauma in your life kept activating your nervous system more. Each emotion and event sent you deeper into dysregulation, and now? You've been living that way ever since. Biologically, all the events are still happening because it never felt safe enough to actually resolve it.

Of course you feel on edge. Your body literally is.
Of course you feel depressed. Every emotional experience is still existing inside you.
Of course you're fighting each day, never resting; always scanning for danger. Your body is fighting to stay safe from events it never had a chance to learn are in the past.

This isn't a weakness. This isn't something wrong with you. This is your body doing exactly what it was designed to do — it just never got the signal that it's finally safe to stop.

And that right there? That's exactly why you keep recreating the same patterns in your relationships and life. Your body has become wired for what it knows. That's why you've analysed your emotions to death, identified every pattern, located the 'why' behind it all — yet you still feel like shit.

You've never felt safe enough to actually feel okay and change.

And I understand you — because I lived it too.

Meet Your Coach

I'm not just someone who studied this.
I lived everything you're carrying.

Ronan — EFT Practitioner & Founder of Arbee Wellness
10yrs

Working 1:1 with clients, helping hundreds around the world

100s

of clients now living the life they thought they'd never get to

5

Certifications, and still studying more

My name is Ronan. I am a Certified Somatic Therapy Practitioner specialising in E.F.T Tapping — a clinically proven somatic therapy that resolves the root cause of what traditional therapy only ever helped you understand.

I help self-aware, sensitive and high-functioning people feel at ease so they can finally live an authentic, peaceful life without exhaustion, shame and suffering — even if they've tried everything and it never fully resolved anything.

I have been working 1:1 with clients for nearly 10 years now and have amassed five certifications, helping hundreds of people all around the world finally break out of just getting through each day.

I spent years in therapy understanding exactly why I was the way I was. I could explain my patterns in perfect detail. I knew the exact moment in my childhood it all started. And I was still miserable.
I was trapped in relationships that replayed the same pain.
I couldn't stop the anxiety no matter how much I understood it.
I was chronically exhausted, ashamed and honestly — starting to wonder if this was just who I was.

One night, crying alone in my room, I asked myself one question: Some people are genuinely happy. Why not me?

That question changed everything.

I survived 20 years of narcissistic abuse. I successfully healed and recovered from eating disorders, severe depression, anxiety, abusive relationships and chronic guilt/shame.

Many years later, I've achieved a natural baseline of calm, stability and inner security. I feel deeply peaceful, present and enjoy each day of my life without the patterns that kept me trapped in the past.

RonanFounder, Arbee Wellness
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And because it's never too late to start —
here's how you can too.

Introducing: E.F.T Tapping

E.F.T is the thing that works
when everything else hasn't

E.F.T Tapping is a clinically assessed and proven somatic therapy that regulates the nervous system to finally end the struggle, shame and exhaustion.

Now I know what you're thinking — you've heard promises and tried everything already. So let me show you what the research says:

90%

of PTSD participants no longer met clinical criteria after six sessions

63%

were completely symptom free in less than 10 sessions

90%

of anxiety participants noticed improvement compared to 63% with CBT Therapy

43%

decrease in cortisol within one hour — that's the stress hormone keeping you awake at 2am

1 session is all it takes to feel a difference.

E.F.T is not a woo-woo manifestation technique you see online — it has 300+ peer-reviewed studies creating powerful transformations such as below.

These clients were skeptical too.
Then everything shifted.

Depression & Anxiety
3 sessions · Depression & Anxiety
Anxiety & People Pleasing
4 sessions · Anxiety & People Pleasing
Business Confidence & Success
2 sessions · Business Confidence
The Neuroscience

Here's what's actually happening
in your brain when we tap

You've been told your anxiety, exhaustion and patterns are a mindset problem. They're not. They're a nervous system problem — and here's the science that proves it.

Every time you feel triggered, reactive, or like you can't switch off — that's your amygdala firing. It doesn't know the difference between a lion chasing you and the memory of a childhood moment that made you feel worthless. To your nervous system, both are equally real, equally urgent, equally right now.

That's why you can sit in therapy for years, understand every single reason you feel the way you do — and still feel exactly the same. Understanding lives in your conscious mind. Your pain lives in your body and nervous system. And until something reaches that layer, nothing permanently changes.

EFT reaches that layer. Here's what's happening at a biological level every time we work together:

01

Your brain's alarm switches off

The amygdala is your brain's threat detector — it's what fires when you feel anxious, on edge, or overwhelmed. Tapping on acupressure points sends a direct calming signal to the amygdala in real time, physically deactivating the alarm while you hold the emotion or memory in mind. Your nervous system gets the message it's been waiting for: it's safe now.

02

Your stress hormone drops — fast

Clinical trials by Dr Peta Stapleton measured cortisol — the stress hormone that keeps you wired, exhausted and unable to sleep — before and after EFT sessions. The average reduction was 43% in a single hour. Not after months of meditation. Not after years of therapy. One session. That's why clients so often leave feeling lighter than they have in years.

03

Painful memories lose their charge

When a distressing memory is activated while the nervous system is simultaneously calmed through tapping, the brain goes through a process called memory reconsolidation — it literally rewrites the emotional signature of that memory. The event still happened. But it stops feeling dangerous. You're not suppressing it or coping with it. It is genuinely resolved.

04

Your automatic responses rewire

Every time you've been triggered into anxiety, shutdown, or people-pleasing — your brain has been reinforcing those neural pathways, making them faster and more automatic. Repeated EFT creates new pathways, so the old triggers stop firing the old responses. The reactions you've spent years trying to talk yourself out of simply stop being the default. New patterns become natural — not forced.

05

Your body stops living in survival mode

The hypothalamic-pituitary-adrenal axis — your body's stress response system — governs whether you feel safe or in danger. For you, it's been chronically over-activated for years. EFT has been shown to regulate this system directly, bringing your baseline out of fight-or-flight and into the calm, present, regulated state that feels like peace. Not because you've practised feeling calm — because your body has stopped generating the signal that you're under threat.

06

Healing goes all the way to the cellular level

Emerging research shows EFT can influence gene expression related to stress, immunity and inflammation. This isn't metaphor — your body has been carrying this at a biological level, and the healing goes just as deep. Some clients notice not just emotional shifts but physical ones: better sleep, less tension in the body, a digestive system that finally settles. Because it was never just in your head.

This is why EFT works when everything else hasn't. It's not about insight. It's not about willpower. It's about finally speaking the language your nervous system actually understands.

Other nervous system regulation tools focus on managing your triggers and symptoms to provide temporary relief, whereas EFT clears the problem at the ROOT so you can be free of your problems, patterns and pain for good.

This is what's possible for you
after EFT

This isn't hope. This is what consistently happens when the root cause is actually resolved.

You wake up rested.

You will wake up feeling rested, with a normal level of energy that carries you through the day. Enough energy to not only enjoy your day, but rediscover and enjoy the things you actually want to do. Feel motivated to take care of and show up consistently for yourself.

You feel present and secure.

You will feel present and content through the day, effortlessly connecting with the world around you without monitoring or replaying each interaction. Live with a deep inner security, feeling safe enough to be completely you, without second guessing yourself out of fear, shame and guilt.

Your baseline becomes peace.

Your new baseline will be of peace, contentment and an inner state of calm. Navigate overwhelming emotions. No more rumination. No more living on edge. Naturally regulate your emotions, reducing burnout, lessening reactivity and self-sabotage.

You attract what you actually want.

You'll finally attract the relationships and changes you've been secretly desiring. Feel attracted to healthier people. No longer trapped inside patterns you can see playing out in real time — instead you will feel able to do better for yourself. Real change and results that feel exciting, yet comfortable and restful.

You work well and live well.

You'll function both at work and in your personal life in a sustainable way. Instead of pushing yourself to the limit just to be productive or successful, you will have the balance, energy and courage to work well while also living well.

Here's what you can expect
when we work together

01
We identify what's at the root

Once the session starts — we'll begin by going over any immediate questions you have and I'll ask you what brought you here. Once we've identified the pattern, problem or pain — I'll begin looking for the root cause. The pattern, problem or pain you're consciously aware of isn't the issue. It's where the issue is coming from. Once I identify that (which is usually very quick) — I will clear the root of your issue so it doesn't come back.

02
I lead you through a built-for-you tapping routine

The tapping routine involves me understanding the problem at the root and then guiding you through each of the 8 tapping points, while you repeat the words I say — this helps eliminate the issue. We will check in and adjust the tapping script several times throughout the session as you feel relief from each layer and a new one is revealed — until the issue is cleared.

03
Relief felt in session one. Lifelong change from session three.

In fact, I'm so confident based on my previous clients' success rates — that after 10 sessions with me, you'll not only have an incredible transformation but also have a tool that you can take with you for a lifetime, to use on yourself when you need it. You don't have to be dependent on your therapist anymore.

And because I'm trained and accredited through EFT International — I've studied a range of E.F.T techniques that help you resolve the past without re-traumatising you or needing you to even tell me about the event! We just identify it and clear it.

Still wondering if this is for you?

Here's everything I've witnessed clients
recover from using EFT

Depression
Anxiety & panic attacks
PTSD & complex trauma
Childhood abuse & neglect
Narcissistic abuse recovery
Grief & loss
Relationship trauma
People pleasing
Perfectionism
Low self-worth & self-doubt
Chronic stress & burnout
Emotional eating & weight loss
Phobias & fears
Insomnia
Addictions & compulsions
Shame & guilt
Blocks to success, money & manifestation
Procrastination & self-sabotage
Insecure attachment styles
Limiting beliefs
Medical Trauma

If you can see yourself in even one of these — EFT can help. Start with a single session, completely risk-free.

This is NOT for you if you are:

  • Comfortable staying exactly where you are, continuing to live with the struggle, hoping somebody will validate and see your pain
  • Not prepared to dedicate just one hour a week, where you can start seeing the change from day one
  • Not willing to show up for yourself in these sessions, and explore the deep feelings that need to be processed

This is for you if you…

  • Have tried everything under the sun, leaving you doubtful if anything will actually work for you
  • Don't want to spend months explaining your childhood through to adulthood with yet another person, reliving it all — only to look for somebody else because they weren't the right fit for you
  • Don't want to talk about it anymore — you want to DO something about it
  • You've been let down by practitioners before and you're scared to get your hopes up again — but something in you knows you're not done trying

If that sounds like you, then one more thing…

Think about how long you've been struggling. The relationship strains. The money and time you've already spent getting nowhere. The years of fighting to get through each day. What is it actually costing you to stay here?

Are you ready to finally feel okay?

and embody deep inner security, self trust and live at peace from your core.

Now is your chance to live without the fight, the struggle, the shame and be free from the patterns that haunt your life.

Here's how you can get started — while I'm welcoming new clients.

And because you’ve already been struggling long enough - Afterpay is available on the checkout page for you to get the help you need today

Your Investment
Single Session

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$150 NZD
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  • Feel a real shift from session one
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Total Freedom & New Way of Existing

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Best for you if you've never tried therapy or you want to work through complex trauma, patterns and a range of issues
  • 10 x 60-minute EFT sessions for complete, lasting transformation
  • Comprehensive root cause resolution
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100% Money-Back Guarantee

If after your first session you don't feel any shift at all — email ronan@arbeewellness.com and I'll refund your money back. No questions asked. I'll take all the risk for you.. You have nothing to lose.

P.S: due to the success rates of my clients — I've never had to honour my refund policy.

Your questions. Answered.

Sessions are 1 hour and conducted via Google Meet so you can tap wherever makes you feel most comfortable. My recommendation? Somewhere you won't be disturbed for an hour.

And if you're not good with technology — don't worry. It's super easy. After you invest, you will be redirected to a booking page. Select a time for your first session. Click the link in your email (make sure to check spam!) — and I'll be ready for you at the time you choose.

Camera is optional — however strongly recommended.

And to ensure you get support that works for you — I have morning, afternoon, evening AND weekend availability throughout the week.

And what makes this even better — you can book from anywhere in the world and I'll be sure to have a time that fits your timezone!

And if I don't? I am so devoted to anybody willing to take a chance and try — that I will go out of my way to make sure you get a time that works for you.

Real Results

What people say after
working together

Real clients. Real words. Unedited. Most of them came to me as sceptics who'd already tried everything else.

Depression & Anxiety

"I do not feel like I am struggling with depression. Within less than 2 months, the mass of pain and hurt I have been sitting on my whole life has moved through me."

I struggled with depression and anxiety for over 15 years. My baseline was not wanting to be around. Talk therapy gave me awareness but the depression never actually went away. EFT was different. I now feel bubbly and resilient in a way I could never sustain before — it feels effortless. My baseline is now mostly contentment. I feel like the light has switched on and I no longer dread having to live the rest of my life.

D
Danni
Three sessions · 15 years of depression & anxiety
Anxiety & Self-Doubt

"I had felt stuck for years and tried other forms of therapy. This did not feel like a temporary fix — it felt like lasting change."

Before EFT I had constant imposter syndrome, self-doubt and anxiety every day. I was emotionally exhausted, operating in survival mode. Ronan went into my childhood and addressed the root causes rather than managing current symptoms. I now approach my days with clarity and confidence. That same week after a session I began taking action on a career change I had been too afraid to even consider.

L
Lashini
Four sessions · Anxiety, self-doubt & career blocks
Loneliness & Past Trauma

"Memories that used to spiral me into days of pain are now just passing thoughts — with no impact on me at all."

Before EFT I was carrying deep loneliness, abandonment and an inability to just exist in the moment. Each day, past memories would surface and drain me. Counselling had its merits but nothing felt resolved — it just did not stick. EFT was completely different. Those feelings do not come to mind anymore. My mind is calmer, less noise, and my shoulders no longer feel heavy.

R
Riyadh L.
Four sessions · Loneliness, abandonment & past trauma
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